How to know what gender identity is right for me

Discovering what gender identity is right for you is a tricky business. There are so many labels out there. I mean really, how are you supposed to know which one is the right one?

You might have read definitions, personal stories, watched videos… then left thinking “damn does it really have to be that confusing?” I get it, discovering I was non-binary was a hassle and a half.

Because I’m a fed up bitch with the (lack-of) sources out there, I decided to scour the internet and compile a quiz myself. Worry not my questioning loves, help is on the way~

I read endless testimonies to gather information that will (hopefully) lead you in the right direction.

Of course, I can’t pick your identity for you. Your identity is a journey, not a one stop destination. It takes time to figure out what you’re comfortable with. This quiz is intended to help, but it’s not a definitive answer. Only you can give that to yourself.

general depiction of the gender spectrum of labels and identity
very general depiction of the gender spectrum

Want more information? Check out my other articles explaining sex versus gender and types of attraction.

Have specific questions or personal stories about your journey? Please let me know! Have fun and happy questioning~